Posted by: ppernick | July 26, 2007

We Are Family

The family at Mt. Rainier

Posted by: ppernick | July 26, 2007

STP part 4: The way home

View of Astoria from the Crest MotelWoke up to some nice views from the motel balcony.  Happily surprised to find out that the motel offered a small continental breakfast, so we headed downstairs for some muffins and bagels.  Ran into another STP rider on the way and talked for a bit.

The big disappointment was discovering that our restaurant is apparently no longer open on Mondays or Tuesdays, so instead of eating at the Columbian Cafe (the main reason for coming to Astoria), we found a coffee shop nearby.

After a stop for gas, we figured out our plans for the day and started driving towards Mt. Rainier.  We stopped along the way once at a park area to let Simeon swing, run around, and eat a little bit for lunch.  Nobody was overly hungry, but we did nibble on carrots and grapes.

Mt. Rainier just south of Paradise Last November, flooding caused a huge amount of damage to Mt. Rainier so we headed up to Paradise. We didn’t stop again until we reached Rainier, but then we stopped at a number of turnoffs for pictures and stretching.  It was a little cloudy most of the day, but it wasn’t so bad that we couldn’t take a lot of pictures.  As we were heading back to the car after our Paradise stop, it actually completely cleared up.  Sun shining.  Mt. Rainier in all its splendor.  We made a couple of stops at some turnoffs on the way down and then headed for home.

 We made it home around 9pm.  Simeon was still awake so we did the bedtime routine before we all crashed.

All-in-all a wonderful trip.  Simeon behaved wonderfully – especially during the long car rides – so I’m not too nervous about other long car trips in the future.  As long as we stop once or twice along the way, he’s just fine so long as he has a book in his lap and music playing. 

Posted by: ppernick | July 25, 2007

STP part 3: Day 2 of the Ride

Leaving Toledo:  I don’t remember exactly what time I woke up Sunday morning, but I’m pretty sure we were at least headed downstairs around 7:30am – about the time Ari was getting on his bike again.  I spent the morning finishing up the last minute packing and going over my lists two or three times to make sure I had everything.

Lexington:  The first foodstop for Ari was 25 miles into the day’s 80 mile trip.  Ari returned my morning call as Simeon and I were starting up the car.  Although I was leaving the house at my intended time (10am), it wasn’t until the night before as I was looking at the STP route that I realized we may not be able to catch up to Ari.

St. Helens:  Between a couple of quick stops as I headed out and a short stop for lunch, we were passing Toledo when Ari made it to St. Helens.  He would be long gone before I even made it close to the city.  With only 30 miles left of riding, and St. Helens being the last major stop before Portland, I headed straight to the finish line.

Portland:  I was walking into Holladay Park when I discovered Ari had left me a message – expected time of riding left:  1hr 30min.  Called my coworker and then checked out the vendor tents.  Discovered the free sign making tent and Simeon was very happy to get ahold of some markers.  Hung around the fountains for a bit until I met up with L.  I really appreciated L’s offer to meet up with me.  It was nice to have some adult company while I waited for Ari.  L, Simeon and I grabbed a spot along the sidewalk just ahead of the finish line and kept a lookout. 

The last time Ari rode STP, J came down with me and we stood just ahead of the finish line for 20-40 minutes keeping watch.  Around 8:30pm Saturday night, the Seattle PD rode by with a police escort.  Once past the corner, the escort let the sirens wail a moment and sped off.  Our attention was diverted momentarily wondering if there really was an accident ahead.  Next thing we know, Ari is walking his bike back toward us from the finish line.

Didn’t have that problem this time around.  L and I reached the street a little before 3:30 (Ari’s expected time of arrival) and there was a mass of cyclists waiting to cross the finish line.  Ari saw us when he arrived around 4pm and came over to say hello.  Simeon, waving his sign, was very happy to see daddy.  Not so happy when daddy then left to finish walking across the finish line.  It was a good thing Ari wasn’t too tired to carry Simeon when we met up again – Simeon wasn’t about to let daddy out of his site again for a bit.

L and I then met J and M – two of the other riders in Ari’s group.  Hats off to M – 11 years old and he rode the entire 205 miles.  The guys dropped off their bikes and grabbed a change of clothes from their luggage.  Ari had wanted a shower, but didn’t really want the 45 minute wait.  R, S and Z (the rest of Ari’s group) came through a little later.  Ari and J went to greet them.

After some time sitting around, hanging out, and following Simeon, L had to leave.  I don’t think it was much later that the rest of the group needed to start loading up their bikes and boarding the bus back to Seattle.  Ari, Simeon and I grabbed Ari’s things, loaded up the car, and continued our trip.  We had another couple hours of driving ahead of us.

Astoria:  Arrived at the Crest Motel at 9pm.  Neither Ari or I were feeling that great, so I don’t think we even bothered to turn on the lights. The sun was the perfect clock – it was still a little light when we first unloaded the car and had disappeared from sight within the hour.  Simeon was a little restless and tried playing with us on the bed.  He quickly settled down when he realized it was bedtime.  Thankfully, he only lasted 30 minutes or so in bed with us.  Ari was able to transfer him to the crib without hassle and we were able to enjoy the space of a king size bed for the rest of the night.

Posted by: ppernick | July 19, 2007

STP part 2: Day 1 of the Ride

 

Start Line:  Ari was at the UW parking lot with his group by 5:30am.  I was happily tucked in bed.  I did wake around 4:15 when Ari kissed me goodbye.  I even ran downstairs and opened/closed the garage to get his attention.  I failed.  Luckily, I saw the spare hanging on the key rack when I came back inside and didn’t waste any time going back to sleep.

First half of the day:  Simeon woke around 6:30.  By then, Ari was pedaling his way south.  The rough night before made it easy to convince Simeon he needed more sleep.  I just brought him into my bed and laid back down.  We finally made our way downstairs around 8:30.  Having shown no signs of stomach problems since midnight, it was oatmeal for breakfast – and half of my bowl of cheerios (we’re currently at that stage where he wants anything mommy or daddy are eating). 

(Not quite) The day’s halfway point: Item one on my list for the day – pick up Ari’s car.  Ari left it on a street near my boss’s house – down the street from a nice little playground area with a swingset.  Around 10am, Simeon climbed into the stroller and we were off to play.  As expected, Ari called on the way.  He was in Spanaway – 55 miles Puyallup – 42 miles[1] cycled and time to get some food.  Ironically, I passed his car seconds after we hung up.

Second half of the day:  After playing for a bit, it was time to head back home.  Simeon fell asleep in the car on the way and got a 1.5 – 2 hour nap.  I managed to get some rest, some lunch, some laundry, some dishes and some afternoon planning accomplished.  Ari was breaking away from his group for bit and racing to the mid-point.

STP mid-point:  After running an errand, Simeon and I picked up B&B and headed to Greenlake for some swimming.  I had wanted to take him to the wading pool the weekend before and failed.  The weather was gorgeous and B&B were wonderful company.  Ari called as we were unloading the car.  102 miles and he had made it to Centralia.  He was in line for food (or bathroom), sounded great and had plenty of time to relax.  Unfortunately it was 20-20 hindsight that told him he should have gotten a massage – his thighs burned the next couple days.

Simeon just loved the wading pool!  The weekend before we had gone to the gym pool and finally dunked him under.  This weekend he just had a blast in the water, splashing and running around.  He was also being a great little boy.  A girl brought a toy over to him that had been floating in the water.  When she came back for it, I expected Simeon to have a fit.  Instead he gave it right back and didn’t make a fuss when she left to return it to the rightful owner.  It was also easier than I expected to leave the pool.  He was ready to come out on his own about the same time that B&B and I were starting to think about packing up.  We rested and noshed a bit before heading to dinner.

End of Day 1:  Dinner was unfortunately cut short.  Simeon had absolutely no interest in it, which meant I didn’t either.  Thankfully, B&B were extremely helpful and understanding.  Simeon fell asleep around 7pm as we were on our way to drop B&B back home.  I expected he’d wake up when we got home, but he actually slept the rest of the night.  Tegan ready for a tripI called Ari at one point , expecting he was resting in Toledo (120 miles into the ride and the night’s stop).  Luckily my question was quick, he didn’t have much time.  I found out later they still had a few miles to go, but my good timing had caught them when they had momentarily stopped.

The rest of the night was spent packing and doing a last load of laundry.  By the time I crawled into bed it was the end of Day 1…for everybody. 

[1] Correction after reading the first part of R’s story of the ride.

Posted by: ppernick | July 17, 2007

STP part 1: preparation

STP started a bit early for me.  Or at least what I needed to do and the anxieties it caused started before Saturday.

The basic plan:  Spend Saturday doing stuff.  Head south on Sunday and stop along the way to portland to cheer on Ari and his group.  Meet them Sunday afternoon at the finish line and then spend a night with my family in Astoria.

Step 1:  Book a place to sleep Sunday night. 
The last time Ari and I went to Astoria, we stayed at the Crest Motel in Astoria.  Not having a bad experience and liking the price, I called them last Wednesday and was happy to find they still had rooms open.  Even called back the next day to upgrade to a King size bed — I had a feeling Simeon would wind up in bed with us and wanted to be comfy.

Step 2: Find Ari a ride to the Start Line.
Ari needed to be at the start line (30-45 minutes from home) by 5:30 Saturday morning.  One of my worries was that I would have to wake up Simeon to get Ari to the start and that this would disrupt his schedule for the day.  Luckily, my new boss came to my rescue.  He was biking STP, lives 2 minutes away and said he had room to give Ari a lift.  yay! 

Step 3: Let Ari get to sleep early Friday night.
This was the hard one.  It shouldn’t have been, but Murphy’s Law was in full effect. 

Thursday night was a late work night for me.  I finally logged off with a headache around 1:30 Friday morning.  That headache never disappeared and actually turned into a migraine.  I was sick to my stomach most of the day at work, but going home was not much of an option – Ari took the vanpool in and watching Simeon would not help me get any better.  Started feeling better around 5pm and by 5:30 I was picking Simeon up at the daycare.  The headache lingered a bit, but luckily it was pretty much gone by the time Simeon got sick.  Yeah…you may be able to see where this is going…  Ari said we were due for this.

Around 7:30, after a few minutes of a seemingly restless Simeon, dinner suddenly decided it didn’t like it’s new home and wanted back out.  Simeon outfit #1 out for the count.  Ari, luckily, was still downstairs and helped me clean up.

15 minutes later, as we’re on our way up to the bathtub, Pamela outfit #1 gone (Simeon was only in a diaper, so that was easy enough).  Thankfully, Ari was helpful for this one too.

30 minutes later, back downstairs.  Simeon, only in a pair of shorts, seems to be normal – no crying, ready for the next part of the bedtime routine.  I (stupidly) decide to continue as normal and we sit on the couch with a cup of milk.  No time at all and Simeon outfit #2 taken out.   Ari’s long asleep and I can’t wake him up – he needs to rest.

After cleanup, Simeon seems just fine to sit down and continue watching Blue.  I take the time to call the 24 hour nurse.  Result:  first 5 hours are the worst, call back if it continues beyond 8 hours.  When it subsides, you can start giving him a little bit of water or a few ice chips at a time.  I think we were on our way up to bed when Pamela outfit #2 takes the next hit. 

The next couple hours I stay awake to make sure Simeon’s ok.  Sure enough I hear him crying just before the next couple waves come through – but by this point his stomach is empty and the bowl I’ve got protects my clothes (he’s in diaper only).  I heard him one more time during the night, but other than that we reach the next day and he’s fine all day Saturday.

I think in some ways his getting sick helped calm me down for the rest of the weekend.  I had been nervous about this being my first overnight without Ari to help me with Simeon (not that I haven’t done practically that a number of times before).  I was nervous about driving down to Portland alone.  Nervous about a number of things.  Saturday morning, I woke up and…was just fine.  I was still a bit nervous I would have to deal with a sick Simeon alone, but I also knew that I could handle it.  And nothing could go any worse on Saturday or Sunday than it had the night before.

Probably a few more details than people really wanted to know.  Next installment to come.

Posted by: ppernick | July 4, 2007

Stuff

Why am I awake?  It’s past midnight.  I should be sound asleep – or at least asleep.  Instead I’m sitting in front of a computer. 

Actually, being after midnight I guess it’s official – HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY!

Took Monday and Tuesday off work this week to spend time with SG while she’s in town.  Unfortunately, she wasn’t feeling well today so we didn’t get to see her.  We did get together Sunday and Monday at least.  Sunday afternoon, we met up with SG and the M family at Remlinger Farms.  Simeon had a blast on the little canoe ride and was not happy when I took him out.  He was also a bit nervous about the train ride until it started moving. 

On Monday, as Ari, SG, Simeon and I were heading to the house in the evening, we decided to check out one of the new areas on the ridge (well, we assumed Simeon would agree if he had been awake to state an opinion).  We stopped at the model home, but wound up missing open hours by 5-10 minutes.  So, Ari and I decided to stop by on Tuesday and do a little window shopping.  I forgot how fun it can be to look at houses.  At least when you don’t feel the pressure of needing a house and haven’t already been looking for months.

I liked two layouts.  It’s interesting to see the change in what I want or what catches my eye.  I now have a desire for a separate living room area and would love to have a dedicated playroom upstairs (some changes to the loft are on my list of things to do around the house).   I was amazed at how much it bothered me that one layout did not have an easy passage way from the kitchen to the dining room. I’ve grown quite accustomed to having the laundryroom upstairs.

Anyway…lots of stuff to think about.  But not now.  Now it’s way too late and time to go upstairs and attempt to sleep. 

But before I go…a little Simeon stuff (the real reason I have any readers): 
He’s better than the grandparents and babysitter at turning on the tv.  Our system is a bit complex, but he knows which remotes to use and the buttons to press.  Still doesn’t always quite get the hang of pointing the remote in the right direction, but that’s ok, actually.

 

Posted by: ppernick | June 21, 2007

Moving on up

A few weeks ago Simeon moved up to the Blue room.  Same schedule and moving with a number of others in his room made for a very quick and painless transition[1].  The Blue room is all about independence.  Picking up after himself, starting to use the toilet, drinking out of a cup and using utensils…

Ari and I met with the head teacher of the Blue room during Simeon’s transition week.  She explained that they aren’t really potty training, but introducing the toilet – giving the kids an opportunity to go in the potty but not forcing anything.  After our meeting, I went out and bought a seat for him and have offered it before bathtime every night.  He did wonderfully the first two nights (even with success the first night).  However, ever since then he stiffens and crosses his legs in refusal.  Things are apparently going much better at the daycare.  He’s been successful multiple times this week (once with a dry diaper).  It seems his big source of frustration is also solved – he can now get off the daycare toilet by himself.

We’re also working on reinforcing independence at home in other ways.  He now takes his plate to the dinner table and picks things up off the floor (although the latter, unsurprisingly, requires several requests from the parents).

He’s also started a new behavior – blowing kisses.  Last week I was walking out of the daycare with another mother and her daughter.  Rather than the normal goodbye, I saw him blow a kiss.  Being directly behind him, I had to ask if that’s what he did, but he does it much more regularly now – CUTE!

[1] Not only was the transition easy, but as the teacher said in our meeting “he can hold his own”.  Simeon is not only one of the youngest, but I was reminded the other morning that he’s one of the smallest in the class.  Regardless of that, he seems to have the attention of the other kids.  When we walk into the room one or two kids have a toy ready for him.  If he puts down a toy, somebody will hand it right back to him.  I haven’t seen him be rough with anybody or heard that he’s being a bully.  Which means he’s already figured out how to manipulate others with his cuteness…*sigh* I’m in trouble.

Posted by: ppernick | May 30, 2007

W, X, Y and Z…next time won't you sing with me

New wonders in the world of Simeon:

No.  

That is – “No” is now part of Simeon’s expanding vocabulary. 

No doesn’t always mean no, however.  You have to listen to his enunciation.  Nuh – generally means yes.  No! (short and very clear) and a push of the hands makes it quite clear what he means.

This goes along beautifully with his growing…um…determination.

Last night was Simeon’s first temper tantrum (in part, because Ari or I usually give in before it can go too far).  Simeon wanted to hear the Dancing Bear song[1].  Having gotten him to say and sign “please” repeatedly a day or two earlier (and I do mean repeatedly…I’m pretty sure we played that song 20 or 30 times), I kneeled down and asked him to say please.  He didn’t want to.  Eventually this turned into a very upset little boy laying on the floor crying his lungs out for a few minutes.  While we never did play the song again last night, I am happy to say he did say please (after a couple promptings) when he wanted to hear the song this morning.

Uh-oh

Another addition to the vocabulary that gets uttered whenever he drops something.  Purposely or not.  It’s just so darned cute too.

Ball

Ball was one of Simeon’s first words.  Unfortunately, he seems to think that if it’s round it must be a ball.  I picked out a beautiful little watermelon when last at Trader Joe’s.  Luckily the grocery store doesnt have a “you break it you buy it” policy.  Simeon discovered watermelons don’t bounce.

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[1] My in-laws gave Simeon a gift subscription to Ladybug magazine.  Each month they highlight a different song – displaying the lyrics and sheet music.  They have started posting the songs online and Simeon loves to dance along.

Posted by: ppernick | April 23, 2007

Something to talk about

I guess one positive for the American Idol phenom, was his help in thinking of a good blog title for this post.

I haven’t posted a Simeon update for awhile and he’s done a lot of things recently:

Vocabulary: 
He knows Cracker, Stop, Ball and More (though most specifically in terms of more food).  Along these lines are a couple of signs (sign language signs) he’s picked up. Although it isn’t the official sign, when he says stop he claps his hands together once. And last night we discovered he knows the sign for eat – as evidenced at dinner when he said ‘ma ma’ and put his fingertips to his mouth.

Outdoor activities: 
Not too long ago, Ari put together a little tricycle for Simeon.  It has 3 ‘modes’.  Tricycle with pedals, tricycle with footstand and parent pushes, or you fold the handle underneath and it rocks in place.  Simeon loves riding it.  He’s getting tall enough that he should be able to start pedalling on his own soon.

He also loves the slide!  This weekend, while Ari was out biking, I took Simeon to a nearby playground.  He jumped on to his little tricycle and I pushed him down the alley to the playground. This particular playground is wonderful for both of us.  I can just sit and watch while Simeon climbs up and slides back down without any help!

Indoors: 
I copied an idea of D’s.  Ari, Simeon and I spent an evening with D&J a couple weeks ago.  That day, D picked up a presentation size pad of paper that sets up as an easel.  The boys loved coloring on it.  So, last week I got one for our house.  I need to pick up some washable markers, but for now Simeon uses some colored pencils that I have.

He also loves to climb on things.  Last week Ari and I were in the kitchen when I looked over and saw Simeon looking over the couch.  The boy managed to walk around and climb onto the couch by himself.  Uh-oh.

He’s also quite good at understanding that we use remote controls to operate the television.  He picks up a remote, holds it towards the tv (thankfully backwards most of the time) and tries to push buttons.

Today is his 18-month checkup.  Quite curious to see how much he weighs now.

Posted by: ppernick | April 12, 2007

Take me out to the ballgame

Two news stories dealing with the behavior of sports celebrities have caught my eye recently. 

One was the recent suspensions dealt by the NFL commissioner, Roger Goodell.  Multiple arrests in short timeframes have led to a lot of bench time and loss of pay this upcoming season for the Titans’ ‘Pacman’ Jones and the Bengals’ Chris Henry. Moments after meting out the punishments, Goodell also announced the league will begin holding teams responsible for inappropriate player behavior as well. On top of longer suspensions and higher fines for players, there’s a potential that teams could be stripped of draft picks.

The other was a news piece about the Starbury line of sneakers.  Last year, the Knicks’ Stephen Marbury teamed up with sports retail chain Steve & Barry’s to produce a low-cost line of apparel known as the Starbury Collection.  Ben Wallace of the Chicago Bulls recently joined him in the endorsement of this line.  While Air Jordans and LeBron sneakers sell for $100-$200 a pair, Starbury sneakers cost $14.98.  Of course, the reduced price isn’t without a cost. They’re extremely hard to get and (based on reviews that I’ve read) not very comfortable. And big surprise, people are already selling them on eBay for twice the price or more.

Both of these stories lead to me believe (hope?) that the standards are rising for sports celebrities in the limelight. 

The NBA has punished players harshly for inappropriate behavior on the court (i.e. Ron Artest in Nov. 2004).  The MLB has cracked down on drug use.  But the NFL seems to be going a step further; punishing players for behavior seemingly unrelated to their play on the field.

In some ways I’m disappointed. The idealistic side of me would love for maturity and common sense to be a given in everybody.  That professional sports leagues need not force players to act responsibily in their personal lives.  But I know that isn’t the world we live in.  Will the NFL going this far make a difference?  I hope so.  Even if it’s just a fraction of a percent.  I hope future players will get the message.  If you want to get the money and celebrity status a professional sport can provide, you have to earn it – not only with your skill on the field, but with respectable behavior off the field as well. As Goodell said in one article, “representing the NFL is a privilege, not a right.” 

It’s always nice to see the players who already understand this.  Those who not only work hard and excel on the field, but do what they can to make a difference off the field as well.  Warrick Dunn stands out most in my mind.  First round draft pick and selected to the Pro Bowl team multiple times, he’s shown his dedication to his job.  Then when Hurricane Katrina hit he showed his dediation to his community, challenging all NFL players to donate to the relief (and has since collected over $5 million).  It was probably around that time that I also learned of his Homes for the Holiday program – helping struggling single mothers to purchase homes. 

Now there’s Stephen Marbury and Ben Wallace in the news. Not necessarily to the same extent as Dunn, but they’ve both got skills on the court and trying to do something good outside of that as well. Marbury’s wish and ability to provide a shoe at a price accessible to more than the upper-middle class is admirable. The willingness of both players to endorse the product without getting paid and only receiving royalties on the sales is laudable. Marbury’s promise to wear them on the court the entirety of the 2006-2007 season (and Wallace starting to do the same) is wonderful – providing a reason for kids to desire the shoes and not just their parents. 

The bar is being raised on what consitutes acceptable and commendable behavior from professional athletes. Goodell, Marbury and Wallace are only the most recent and noteworthy to affect it.  How high can it go?

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